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Hints for Holiday Hapiness
by Alyson Beytien, MS-Autism, Behavioral Specialist, Mercy Medical Center - Dubuqe.
Visuals
If you are traveling, put together a book with pictures of where you are going, and of the people you will see.
Create a "schedule" of the holiday events, especially when they will be done!
Solitude
Designate an area just for your child. If the gathering is at your home, calmly tell others that your child's room is his or her safe haven. If you are at another's home, ask if there is a room that can be used for this purpose. Bring favorite toys, movies, etc. to put in the room. If this is not possible, there's always a drive in a car!
Schedule
Do everything you can to maintain your child's routine. Even on Christmas Day, Hanukah nights, or whatever holiday you celebrate, keep the child's schedule as consistent as possible.
Awareness
Some of the greatest advocacy moments come when you promote autism awareness with your extended family.
If you aren't comfortable "presenting" the aunts, uncles, and cousins with some basic info on autism, consider using the
"Souls; Beneath and Beyond Autism" DVD or book to spark a conversation. Give autism t-shirts, jewelry, and books as gifts.
After all, every bit of knowledge your family gains will provide more support to you and your child throughout the year.
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